So you think she might be pregnant. And you are wondering what to do! Whether you are married or not, it seems that a pregnancy isn't "convenient" right now. Perhaps friends and/or family are encouraging you to ask for an abortion.

Whatever your situation, here is some advice that may help you.

• Slow down and listen. Your partner needs your friendship and support now more than ever. Remember – there are now three lives to think about. She doesn’t want to make a choice alone. 
• Talk about the situation. Let her know that you want to be part of the decision making process that will affect both of your lives. Be prepared to talk with your parents and others close to this situation. 
• Gather as much information as you can. Remember that you have options! Research not only abortion, but adoption and parenting as well. Our Center can help you look at all your options and help you consider the possibilities of a positive outcome. 
• Man up – don’t walk away! You may see this unplanned pregnancy as a major roadblock in your lives. But there are other routes that can get you back on track.  
• Don’t pressure your partner! No person will be required to live with the consequences of this decision as much as she will. You may not realize this, but terminating a pregnancy poses many risks for a woman - physical, emotional, and spiritual. No option will be easy, that’s why our Center is here to help you as a couple consider all the possibilities. 
• Remember – you play an active role! Be encouraged to know that many couples in the same situation have found the necessary help and resources to make positive choices and realize their dreams.